Doctrine of Demons Polluting Marriage

There are many doctrines of demons circulating in this Last Day Church (1 Timothy 4:1) that has caused many Christians to depart from the faith and fall into error.

One of the demonic doctrines circulating in the Church and being vigorously promoted by deceived and misled pastors, says that husbands and wives can satisfy themselves sexually in any manner (even ungodly methods) as long as they enjoy themselves; that the marriage itself legalizes the methods and the end (the fun derived) justifies the means (the sexual perversions).

This is a horrendous fallacy and a deceit from the pit of hell on assignment to derail many into hell – the place of everlasting torment for those that reject God and His ways.

I want to use as an example the detestable sex perversion called oral sex. Oral sex is where a husband licks and sucks his wife’s clitoris and vagina and the wife places her husband’s penis in her mouth, sucks it and swallows the semen and the couple calls that sexual wickedness an enjoyment? 

Many couples now believe that because they are in a marriage, anything conducted in the name of marriage and sex is justified and acceptable before God? That is a heresy, a lie from hell!

In one online forum, a man said that he gives his wife oral sex because he has a responsibility to satisfy his wife in bed and she enjoys it that way.  He also said that if he fails to give her the oral sex she desired, other men may give it to her. That is absolute rubbish talk – a demon inspired argument. Sexual satisfaction via perverse sexual activity, is this right in the eyes of the Lord? 

God have mercy on such people.

 The Bible says in Hebrews 13:4 that ‘marriage is honorable in all and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge’. There are sexual activities in marriage that are perverse and unacceptable that God will judge couples for. 

 

There are boundaries in marriage and sex – forbidden trees and forbidden fruits.

 Limit yourself to what God allows and has provided and do not seek for ungodly benefits which the Devil is promising you to enjoy but which God has not provided. That was Adam and Eve’s blunder which led to their fall in Genesis Chapter 3 – touching forbidden fruits.

Further, these perversions are vile passions that defile and destroy the body of man which is the temple of God (1 Corinthians 6:20). God vows to destroy any person who destroys His temple.

In Exodus 20:3, God commands that we are not to have any other gods before Him. These scriptures indicate that we put God and His interests first above everything else in our lives. Marriage itself is second only to our commitment to God. 

In this context, why will a couple place their sexual interests above God and perform their sexual interests in ungodly manners against God’s Word and defiling their matrimony contrary to Hebrews 13:4? Are they telling God that pleasing the spouse comes first above pleasing God? 

If you are placing your spouse’s interests first above God’s interests; pleasing your spouse first and displeasing God in the process, then you are an idolater and the spouse you place first above God has become an idol and a god in your life. This is contrary to God’s command in Exodus 20:3 and Matthew 22:37.

Another devilish doctrine says that a wife can dress in any manner as long as her husband likes it. Therefore, she can dress in worldly, ungodly and immoral apparel to please her husband to whom she must submit. 

Ungodly apparel is condemned in the Scriptures in verses such as Deuteronomy 22:5; Zephaniah 1:8; Isaiah 3:16-24; Hosea 2:13; 1 Timothy 2:9-10 & many other verses on ungodly dressing and ungodly apparel include the following:

Beads, blush, necklace, tattoo, lipstick, nail paint, false nails, piercing, waist beads, enlarged breasts, bum pads, wigs, leggies, short knickers, strapless, spaghetti, backless, tight gowns, short blouse, tight skirts, miniskirt, trousers, body hug, patted skirt, transparent lace, open cleavage, worldly cut, dreadlocks, ear rings, sagging trousers, chains, wedding rings, body piercing, rubber hair, tintin, eye lash, false lens, eye shadow, small earrings, big earrings, nose rings, neck chains, leg chains and bracelets.

Complying with a husband’s perverted desires that violates God’s commandments is disobedience to God. The husband who expects his wife to dress in ways that violate the Bible’s dress code needs spiritual help. It means that he is a pervert at heart, far away from God (Matthew 15:8). The husband who becomes a stumbling block to his wife’s salvation and relationship with God will surely be judged.

The hierarchy in 1 Corinthians 11:3 places Christ above the husband, and the husband is followed by the wife. If a husband expects his wife to disobey God in order to please him and he derives pleasure in that, then he has a problem and needs urgent spiritual help.

Further Scriptures on ungodly apparel include Ezekiel 23:39-40;Exodus 33:5; Jeremiah 4:30; Leviticus 19:28; 1 Peter 3:3 and Proverbs 7:10

Ayodele Adegbulugbe.
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